Award Winning Boston Wedding Photographer

Award Winning Boston Wedding Photographer serving Boston, Cape Cod, Newport and New England. Celebrated for her empathetic understanding, meticulous organization and impeccable time management, Deborah brings a distinctive collaborative approach to her craft.

Prepping for wedding season

Prepping For Wedding Season

Happy Spring! Well, I think so...up here in the Northeast, I think we’re confused. It SHOULD feel like spring, but it feels a little more like winter...will it ever end?! Regardless of what the weather feels like, it is spring and that means many of us photographers are gearing up for wedding season!

I love this time of year. I love deep cleaning the office, organizing my files and getting everything in order. There are many different steps that I take to insure that my gear, my cards, my computer are prepped and ready for a season of portrait sessions, weddings and editing. Each one of these steps helps me to start on the right footing and enables me to perform at my best. So, where do we begin?

1. Clean Your Office Space. The off season often means doing lots of work behind the scenes. This can mean paperwork strewn about, coffee rings on the desktop and an overflowing trashcan. Declutter, vacuum, clean, do whatever you need to organize your office and keep it clutter free. A clean and organized space will help you stay focused and driven for all the tasks ahead!

2. Organize Your Desktop. Your desktop computer that is! After a year of shooting (and shooting in the off season) your computer’s desktop is probably full with lots of folders strewn about. Cleaning and organizing this area of your computer is a necessary step to stay on top of your work. Here is how I break it down: First, I make sure that any folders on my desktop have been backed up at least in three different places. Once that has happened I know I can delete that folder off of the desktop. Second, at the top of wedding season I try to make sure that my desktop is cleared of almost all folders and projects (unless they are ongoing) so that there is lots of space for new shoots and weddings throughout the season. Third, I create several “drop” areas on the actual desktop where folders can sit while they are being processed (Personal, Current, To Archive, Special Projects etc).

3. Gear Cleaned & Checked. At the beginning of every year I will send off my gear (lenses, camera bodies and any broken equipment) off to Canon Professional Services for cleaning and equipment check. This is a GREAT service for Canon users (Nikon has a similar program). As a Platinum member I know that I can send gear off at the beginning of the week and have it sent back to me clean and ready to go by the end of the week! I love knowing that my gear is in tip top shape before the start of wedding season. As photographers who shoot a LOT, it is highly recommended that you have your gear checked once a year (or more if needed) to ensure that it is in great condition and will keep up with your season throughout the year.

4. New tools. At the end of every season I go through my gear (like bags, flashes and more) to determine what needs to be replaced and needs to be added. This year I purchased a new camera bag, a backdrop and stand, customized lens caps, shotgun mic, cards and more. Some of my fave buys this off season : back drops from DropIt Modern, lens caps from LenzBuddy, camera bag from Kelly Moore, Rode shotgun mic,

5. Test, Test, Test. This might be the most important task to accomplish on this list. You always want to test your gear after a season of shooting. Make sure all equipment is working properly. Do you need to purchase new cards that are not functioning? Does a piece of gear need to be serviced? Is your computer running it’s best? Doing all these tests NOW will help ensure that your season will run smoothly.

What are some things that you do to prepare for the start of a new wedding season? Do you have rituals or habits that you walk through before each season begins? How do you prep your office or computer? I’m always looking for suggestions and ideas, so feel free to share! I hope this list is a helpful starting point to get you prepped and ready for your wedding season! Here’s to a successful, fun and exciting year of shooting and stretching our creative muscles! (Just don’t forget to prep before you jump right in:))!

At Home With The Parkers

The Toddler Named Jonathan

He'll probably hate me for taking these pictures one day, but I couldn't help it! Bathtime has quickly become one of our favorite activities of the day, often followed by a tickle chase around the house. It's in these moments I feel the greatest amount of joy. There is no work, no emails, no distractions. This our time together, a chance to reconnect, relax, discover, play.

Maybe it's because I'm feeling sentimental as Jonathan's 2nd birthday fast approaches or perhaps it's because I feel "guilty" for not taking more pictures of him. Whatever the resaon, I decided to grab my camera during bathtime the other night. We splashed and giggled and had a grand old time. I was lucky enough to have Jonathan look at me for a few split seconds and grabbed these images while being splished and splashed and getting completely soaked. It was so.much.fun!

These days I am acutely aware of just how fast time goes. Jonathan is quickly outgrowing every piece of clothing that he owns, seemingly overnight. One day, after only speaking a few words here and there, he began speaking in sentences. He cries when Papa leaves for work and gives the best hugs when he returns. His hair grows and grows and is turning a light shade of red and blonde. He is obsessed with all things trucks and calls out for "Ah-Boo", the doggy at his daycare. He is turning into a little man over night and I am just not prepared. I want him to stay little forever.

But despite the growing pains I'm feeling as a Mom, I know that these are all wonderful things. It is what is supposed to happen and if nothing else, I pray that I continue to cherish every moment, in all of his stages. The good, the bad and the toddlerly.

It's funny how something so simple as a blog can be a way to remember. I can think back to all the posts I wrote here, from announcing our pregnancy, to delivering Jonathan, to raising a baby and now living in toddlerland. I can remember exactly how I felt when I wrote each post and marvel at just how much I've grown through this experience of being a Mom. I love having this space to talk with those who visit, to share in my experience and to walk through life together. My blog isn't just a place for pretty pictures and wedding advice. It's also a chronicle, a time capsule if you will, of this life and I'm really grateful for that! Thank you for walking this journey with me and for being their to support our family!

So wil you indulge me as I share a few updated pictures of Jonathan, during our favorite time of day?:) I know you will...because he's just the cutest!

Wedding day family portraits

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The Family Formals

Weddings draw people together. Friends, family, loved ones will travel miles if not across oceans to attend weddings. These may be people the couple has not seen in years. It's an incredibly joyous occasion that brings people together and as a photographer, I love being there to document these relationships and mini reunions! As a photographer, that is a big responsibility and one that I do not take lightly! For many photographers, the Family Formals are not their favorite part of the day. But for me, I love witnessing the relationhips the couple has with their family, friends and loved ones. I love watching as Grandpa clings tightly to his darling granddaughter or how the Groom reaches over to give his Mom a kiss. I love these moments and I love capturing them!

Over the years I've noticed that preperation goes a long when it comes to Family Formals. Because I want these images to be happy, joyous, celebratory, I work extensively with the couple BEFORE the wedding day to ensure that there is room for FUN, SPONTENEITY and a relaxed environment. Below are a few tips that I share with every couple in how to help best prepare their family (and each other!) for the Family Portraits!

1. Communiate. Communicating with your loved ones before the wedding day can make a huge difference in the atmosphere surrounding your family formals. First, remember to communicate where your family is to be the day of the wedding. I can't stress this enough, especially if a couple chooses to take their portraits before the ceremony. If you have older relatives, who may be unfamiliar with this, a gentle reminder of when and where they need to be the day of the wedding can eliviate time spent waiting for lost guests. Additionally, communicating the vibe and feeling you want to achieve in your family portraits is vastly important. Let your family know that they can let loose, have some fun, joke around, and just enjoy each other's company! As your photographer it’s my job to help people feel natural, but having the right attitude to start goes a long way in creating fun and memorable family portraits!

2. Organization. Stress can be a huge factor in how successful the wedding portrait time is. Part of what can make this time stressful is lack of organization. It can be hard trying to rally up 30 plus people for your family portraits when food and drinks are in the apposite direction;). Being organized ahead of time can ensure that you are stress free and that your family knows exactly where to be and when on the wedding day. Two months before the wedding day, I send out a questionnaire to all my couples to go over exactly who they want participating in their family formals. This helps to start the organization process early and gives the couple the tools and information to communicate to their family. Come the wedding day, the Bride and Groom know exactly who will be having their pictures taken and when! We check things off as we go and make any adjustments as needed. The less the Bride & Groom have to think about, the less they have to worry about!

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3. Relax. If you haven't noticed it already, there is a theme going on here, relaxation. People feed off certian energy; If the Bride & Groom are happy and relaxed, then most likely those around them will be also. It’s all in the attitude. Allow me to take care of gathering people together, organizing the groupings and directing people. It’s the Bride & Groom's job to just ENJOY this moment, hug and kiss their families and to just simply take it all in. If you do find that you’re starting to get anxious then, take a deep breath, remember that you love your family and remember the purpose of the day: each other!

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4. Numbers. For each wedding I alot around 30 minutes in the timeline for Family Formals. Because there has been extensive communication before hand, we alreayd know who will be in what groupings and people know where to be and when. I stirve to make the family portraits time a fun and relaxed environment while being efficient so that everyone can get back to what they really want to do: PARTY! That being said, I always advise couples to be aware of the amount of combinations that they TRULY want. Organizing and gathering people does take time. Allowing people a moment to breath and relax takes time. The more people we have to photograph the more time it will take to do so. As your planning out who you would like photographed on your wedding day, remember to be realistic as to how much time you have and how many people you want in your portraits.

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Below is a basic combination list that I start with all my couples. Of course every family dynamic is different so this list will often change. Couples can add or remove combinations from this list and we work together to create a family portrait list that fits their needs as well as their timeline!

Bride and Mom

Bride and Dad

Bride with Mom and Dad

Bride and Groom with Mom and Dad

Bride and Groom with Mom and Dad (add siblings & significant others, families, grandparents)

Bride with Mom and Dad (add siblings)

Bride and Groom with Grandparents

Bride and Groom with both sets of parents

Bride and Groom with both sides of families

Groom with Mom

Groom with Dad

Groom with Mom and Dad

Groom and Bride with Mom and Dad

Groom and Bride with Mom and Dad (add siblings & significant others, families, grandparents)

Groom with Mom and Dad (add siblings)

Groom and Bride with Grandparents

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As your photographer, family formals are all about documenting family units, the bond that each family shares and preserving family history. Being able to witness as families come together and capturing that that in an image is what I love! My goal is to provide you with images that help you to remember your family for years to come. Maybe you won't see them again for many years or maybe they live right down the street, either way I hope that your family portraits serve as a reminder of just how much love was shared on your wedding day and the people who make your life bright!

If you have any questions about how I organize the Family Formals or would like more detail on what this part of the wedding day looks like, leave a comment below and I'll share my responses today! Happy Wednesday everyone!

North Shore Newborn Photography | Jes, Dave & Fitz

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A North Shore Family Portrait Session

Fitz decided to make his entrance into the world just a little earlier than expected. As I talked with Jes and Dave about their experience into the world of parenthood, they couldn't help but smile. When I asked if they were anxious that Fitz was a little early, they just shrugged it off, embracing their new role as Mom and Dad. Jes & Dave are naturals, caring, nurturing, loving. They fit effortlessly into this new reality of late nights, dirty diapers, baby cries and more. And despite the challenges that the first few weeks of newborn-ness can bring, Jes & Dave take it all in stride, learning at they go, together as a team.

It is pure delight as photographer to have the opportunity to watch as new parents interact with their new babies. With Jes and Dave the word I kept repeating in my mind over and over again was : Head over heels. Ok, I guess that's three words. I watched at how Jes looked at her newborn baby boy, with such tenderness and unhindered love. Or how Dave scooped Fitz up into his arms, with such protection and care. Or when Dave tenderly wrapped his arms around Jes as she held their baby boy, pouring out all the love and affection he felt for her at that moment. For me, that is what makes newborn sessions so special. There is nothing quite like the love of a parent and the way a couple grows together as they grow their family.

Jes & Dave, thank you for welcoming me into your home to document such a special time your family's journey! You are wonderful parents, it was beautiful to watch as you cared for and loved your little guy! Enjoy the images!

A North Shore Family Portrait Session by Deborah Zoe Photography.

The Mommy Interviews with Natalie of Whim Events

I first met Natalie of Whim Events back when I was pregnant with my son, Jonathan. We collaborated together with friend and fellow photographer, Kendra, to pull together a beautiful styled shoot highlighting the best of New England. See you can see all that pretty here!

The first time we met to talk about the shoot I specifically remember thinking “Oh God, please take me seriously!” as I was in my third trimester and VERY pregnant. Little did I know that at that very moment, not only was Kendra secretly pregnant, Natalie was as well! Since our spring shoot in 2013 we have all delivered beautiful babies, are raising adorable toddlers and spend our days blending our titles of Mommy and Business Owner.

Natalie consistently inspires me with her work ethic and passion for creativity. I love the joy she finds in serving her family and clients well. She has so much to share in what it means to be a woman of integrity who loves her family and follows her passion. I’m delighted to invite her to share her heart with you today for another installment of the Mommy Interviews! So please give a warm welcome to Natalie, cofounder of Whim Events!

Welcome Natalie!! First off, how long have you been a Mum?

Exactly 15 months and 9 days. =)

Can you share a little about why you and your business partner started Whim and your vision for the business?

Moira and I started Whim in 2011. She had her own floral design business and I hired her for my wedding flowers. I was in event marketing at the time. We instantly got along and bartered for services - I would help her with her marketing and she would give me my flowers wholesale. Turns out, we sat down for coffee after my wedding, and found out we both had the same passion for creativity, throwing a kick-ass party and helping others. We both wanted to make other people’s wedding dreams come true and create a breath of fresh air in the wedding industry. So we started Whim. At the time, we had no idea how quickly the business would grow! We have done over 100 weddings together and our vision is still the same - to throw an amazing party with a whole lot of personality, make the planning effortless for the Bride and Groom and work with a team of creatives behind the scenes. We love it so much, it truly never gets old!

Have you always wanted to be a Mom? Were there any decisions or influences in your life that encouraged you to begin your family?

I have always wanted to be a mom. I don’t think I have ever imagined my life without a family or little ones running around! I am blessed to have supportive and inspiring parents who have shown me what it was like to work hard, play hard and love hard. So a family was just a natural step for me. That said, I was not in a hurry to have kids. After my husband and I got married, we spent 2 years just being together and doing the things we liked to do. I honestly have no idea why we decided to start trying when we did (well, except we needed to have a winter baby because of the off-season, and luckily it worked out!). I guess we both just knew it was time!

You gave birth to your first baby, Cecily, in 2013. Would you share about your experience running a business while being pregnant?

For the first 6 months of my pregnancy I was one of those annoying pregnant ladies who LOVED being pregnant. Really. I felt better overall. I was actually less emotional, and more consistently calm. This actually helped me in running the business as I was able to stay even more cool, calm and collected in challenging situations. I also found that it was during my pregnancy when I actually learned to delegate tasks and be a better manager. I am very Type A and like to do things myself, but while pregnant I physically could not. This is actually where I learned to bring on more staff and manage them properly. The hardest part was in the last 2 months when I was diagnosed with cholestasis and hospitalized with complications. Trying to train the team for my maternity leave and work with clients from my hospital bed was so challenging that I finally realized I had to stop. Some clients were uneasy about me going on maternity leave early, and dealing with that was emotional for me, but I knew it was for the best. I was able to pass on my jobs to my amazing team and our clients received better service because of it! Plus, I was able to rest up and stay healthy for my little one.

As a small business owner, we have a unique opportunity to determine our own maternity leave. Did you take a maternity leave and how long was it? Can you share your thoughts behind this?

I did take maternity leave. I took 3 months...kind of. For the first two months I was really great about completely separating myself from work. I spent every day with my little one at home. Luckily, I had Cecily in Whim’s off season, so we did not have a lot of weddings. However, in the third month, I was asked to plan a wedding for a dear friend who recently lost her husband to pancreatic cancer. At the time, he was just diagnosed and was told he only had a few months left to live. My team and I planned their wedding in 3 weeks. I was technically on maternity leave, but I just knew it was something I wanted to do. And truth be told, I really missed helping people. Even if I had not planned that wedding, I think work would have sprinkled its way into my last month of maternity leave anyway. I was lucky because Cecily slept all day as a newborn, so I had a lot of free time! And with that free time came this nagging fear that I was missing out on new opportunities, new business or new partnerships. I love my work, so I did struggle with the guilt of wanting to work during such an amazing time of my daughters life. So my thoughts on maternity leave are as follows: Take as much time as you can, but don’t beat yourself up if you are eager to go back. You are a separate entity outside of your child, and it is ok to want to be that person again!

Following your maternity leave you decided to jump back into running and managing Whim Events full time. You have a very full schedule of weddings, events and meetings. Was the transition difficult?

See above! The other difficult transition was pumping at work and on the go at weddings. Also, trying to find time for myself, work, family and baby! That is still very difficult, one year later.

Are there routines, schedules or rituals that you do with Cecily during the day or throughout the week which makes the balance more manageable?

My favorite ritual is putting her to bed each night. Ever since she was born, my husband and I have always given her a bath after dinner together and then I take her into room, put on her pjs and cuddle her in the rocking chair until she goes down. I love doing it. Its our time. She’s older now, and cuddles much less, but I still attempt to rock her for a few minutes. I also love weekend mornings with my husband and Cecily. She wakes up and Shaun brings her into bed with us. We tickle her and laugh under the covers.The three of us are together and for a few brief moments, there a no obligations other than to be right there. It’s the best!

How has parenthood changed you? Was it what you were expecting?

I had no expectations, so I think that helped a lot! I try to just roll with things as much as possible. Being a mom has helped me create a better routine and separate my home life and work life a lot more. When I come home from work, it’s all about being with my family, having dinner, putting Cecily to bed, packing her lunch for the next day, taking a few minutes to talk to my husband and watching our favorite shows together. Being a mom has grounded me and helps me to realize that work can wait until tomorrow!

As a woman who is running a business and following her passions, what kind of example do you hope to set for your daughter Cecily? Is there anything you hope to teach her from your experience?

I hope to teach Cecily to be strong and passionate, but also light-hearted. Having my Type A personality has it’s drawbacks (being a bit too intense at times) so I want to encourage her to find joy and humor no matter how hard she is working. My parents also instilled something in me that I will never forget - they told me I could be anything I wanted to be. I have never let fear stop me from trying new things (yes, I have failed many times and yes, it hurts!). I want Cecily to be eager, open and excited about what the word has to offer her. And if she does not love something, she can try something new without feeling bad about it!

What would be your advice to Moms out there who are balancing a business and family?

My biggest piece of advice is not to listen to advice! Just kidding, sort of. Do what is best for you and your family and what feels right. Every child is different and every parent is different. People love to tell you how to raise your child, but no one is in the exact same situation as you are. If I must give advice ;), I will give the advice of one of my best friends, a working mom who is a mother of 2 boys and partner at a large public relations firm in Washington, D.C. She said that being working mom is actually not about “balance” at all. That “balance” is actually an unrealistic term we use as a society, and that the real skill is realizing that some days WILL be unbalanced. And that no matter what time you have with your child, even if it’s 20 minutes after a long day at work, its all about the quality of time together...not the quantity. Your child remembers the hugs and the real love you give!

What has been your greatest joy being a Mom?

The greatest joy is seeing Cecily smile everyday. Hearing her laugh is the best thing on earth. And honestly, watching my husband become an amazing father has been another great joy. He loves being a dad and is so good with her. And the coolest part about being a mom is watching Cecily grow before our eyes. I remember thinking when she was a newborn, what will Cecily look like with hair?! What will her voice sound like?! It’s awesome to watch these transitions happen and look forward to all of the new ones yet to come!

You can connect with Natalie and the Whim team on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest and via email info@whimevents. If you would like to contact Natalie about your upcoming wedding or event, you can email her at natalie@whimevents.com. Natalie thank you so much for sharing your heart today! What an encouragement it is to watch as you chase after your dreams and raise your baby girl! You are an inspiration!

To make this post even more amazing, Natalie has graciously offered to giveaway one ticket to Whim's upcoming floral workshop!! I had the opportunity to photograph their workshop last spring and let me tell you...it is AMAZING! I learned so much about floral design, how to arrange blooms and more!! For the Bride to Be, the DIY'er or if you want a night out with your girlfriends, this is the perfect event!! Don't miss out!! Enter to win a ticket by liking this post, leaving a comment below and visiting us on Facebook! The contest begins today and ends at 12pm today. We'll be sharing the winner on tomorrow! Good luck!

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Making The Leap To Full Time Part II

Making The Leap To Full Time

My last post in the Tips with DZP series focused on taking small action steps, stepping out of the "should I or shouldn't" trap and in the direction of your goals. For me that looked like working towards making the leap from news photographer to small business owner and wedding photographer. While I started my business in 2009, it wasn't until 2011 that I became a full time business owner. How did that happen? With much thought and defined action plans. While the journey to full time photographer might look different for everyone, this is what it looked like for me.

Around 2007/2008 someone walked into the newsroom and showed me some images. One her friends was getting married in California and they were looking at photographers. "Check these out," she shared, and I was ENTHRALLED with what she showed me. I was completely blown away with how these photographers were capturing weddings, in their own style, in their own unique way. Up until that point I had only pictured wedding photography as a stiff and cookie cutter. These photographers changed that for me.

I looked through their websites and blogs and was hooked. I wanted to run my own business. I wanted to capture HAPPY images of people in love. I wanted to do it my way, in my own unique style. From then on I would spend my days in the newsroom dreaming about a future as a wedding photographer. But I had no idea how to actually make that dream a reality. Like I've shared before, my job was SAFE. Jumping into running my own business was NOT. How does one make that decision? Here are four small steps that I took towards making that dream a reality.

1. I started small. I began second shooting as much as I could for other photographers. While I was a news photographer I worked weekends, which made shooting on the weddings diffcult. I couldn't jump head first into wedding photography, I HAD to take baby steps that aligned with my work schedule. This allowed me to get my feet wet so to speak with wedding photography and to flush out if I really did like shooting weddings. (hey it's not for everyone!) For me this slowly and steady pace was exactly what I needed. I could take my time, dig deep and make the right decision.

2. I kept my day job. I was lucky, my day job as a news photographer actually involved something I love, photography. So while I was continuing to flesh out this dream of owning my own business, I was still able to persue photography and tell stories with my camera. The best part of keeping my full time professoin though was the stability, security and income my job provided. It was a security blanket of sorts and it gave me a unique opportunity to build my business slowly, without racking up debt or making poor financial decisions.

3. I attended conferences. In 2010 I attended WPPI for the first time as a "test". I thought if by going to a Wedding & Portrait Photography conference, that I would know for SURE if this was really the path for me. I honestly thought that I would come home from that conference convinced that staying at my newspaper job was the answer. Instead, I was more on fire than ever and determined to become a wedding photographer. This conference was a game changer for me and gave me the confidence and fuel to chase after this dream of wedding photography.

4. I sought out support. Throughout this period, and to this day, I've had an amazing and unwavering system of support from family, friends, photographers or mentors. I've been incredibly fortunate to have a group of people who have poured into me and my business and helped to further this dream of mine. But these relationships didn't just fall into my lap, I've actively sought out relationships with other professionals, people who have deeply impacted me and my business. If there was one thing that has helped me to make the transition from news photographer to full time wedding photographer it would have to be the relationships I've created over the years. I'm incredibly thankful for the people who have generously poured love, support and knowledge into my life.

Are you transitioning from part time to full time business owner? What have been the things that have helped you along your journey? Have there been people who have poured into your life? For me, slow and steady was the course I needed to take. When it came time to make a decision the path was clear. While the future was unknown, I was ready to take the leap. It's been over four years since leaving my job as a news photographer and I haven't looked back. Having the opportunity to run my own business and photograph JOYFUL couples on their wedding day (and beyond!) has been a dream come true. If you have any questions about what it looks like to make the leap to full time, leave a comment below or shoot me an email, I'm happy to help! Happy Tuesday folks!

On Making The Leap To Full Time by Deborah Zoe Photography.

Image by Justin & Mary.

Natural Greenery Fall Wedding Inspiration

The DZP Fall Workshop

As you may recall, this past fall, I along with the amazing ladies at Whim Events, hosted a photography workshop at my home. It was an AMAZING experience filled with beautiful details and lovely touches! We had high hopes of having the styled portion of the workshop featured on Style Me Pretty and the day finally arrived last week! (See all the pretty here.) Which means we can FINALLY share the images with you!

Whim Events pulled together some of the most unique elements for this shoot. I mean, COPPER PEPPERS, c'mon! If you're planning a fall wedding and are drawn to fresh greens over blooms, then this inspiration shoot is for you! Pull up a chair, grab your favorite drink and let's get to all the pretty, shall we?

THREE CHEERS to the amazing, wonderful, incredible team of vendors who helped being this vision to life!!! Styling : Whim Events | Stationary : Robinson Press | Gowns : Flair Boston | Hair Styling : Hair That Moves | Makeup : Amanda McCarthy Beauty | Rentals : Peterson Party Center | Ribbon : Silk & Willow | Models : DZP couple Alex & Debs | To the wonderful photographers who were a part of this day, thank you thank you thank you!!

Natural Greenery Fall Wedding Inspiration by Deborah Zoe Photography.

Woodland Inspired Maternity Session on Boston's North Shore

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You might remember Ben and Liz from their wintry engagement session & their spring wedding several years ago! They've been on a long journey towards parenthood. It has not been an easy one but along the way they have remained strong and faithful, hopeful to start a family of their own one day. I'm so proud of how much Ben and Liz have grown and how they are an unshakeable team together. They have been an inspiration to me and many others in what it looks like to walk in hope and steadfast faith.

Ben and Liz are the outdoorsy lovin' type of couple and they wanted something that reflected their love of nature. If you know anything about the Boston area, you know that we've been SLAMMED with snow this season (in fact we broke the record for snow this week!). Regardless, Ben and Liz were determined to get outside and I'm SO glad we did! The snow and woods were the perfect combination and a beautiful backdrop.

Many, many, many, thanks to Dogwood Floral for providing the AMAZING florals for Ben & Liz's portraits. They were the perfect compliment! Now let's get on to all the pretty!

Woodland Inspire Maternity Session by Deborah Zoe Photography.

Girls Trip to NYC

A Week Away With My Mom

When I was growing up, every year my Mom and I would take a trip to New York. Being only 4-5 hours away from the Big Apple, it was an easy escape that still made you feel like you were a million miles away. I loved the fast pace atmosphere of the city, the tall buildings, the restaurants, the museums. I loved it so much that I even applied to art school at NYU! Being the musical fanatics that we are, part of our trip would always include a show (or two or three!) and time spent in the theatre disctrict.

It's been years since we've visited the city together and after my visit this past fall, I just knew I had to plan something special. So for Christmas I wrapped up a picture of a train, a hotel, and a broadway theatre. I joked that I was the best daugther in the world because I bought Mom a train, a hotel and all of Times Square;)! After a few confused looks she finally guessed her present and we got about planning our trip!

Because both of our birthdays land in February and because my Mom has school vacation during this month, we always plan for this time of year. And while it's always been cold, this trip sure gave us a run for our money. It wasn't just cold, IT WAS BITTER. We made the most of it and spent our time mingling in shops, enjoying our beautiful hotel and eating yummy food. We saw two great shows, On The Town & Aladdin (which was AMAZING), ate at Nougatine and visited the 9/11 memorial.

It was a great trip! I'm so thankful for the time with my Mom and a few days of rest. As small business owner, sometimes it can be really hard to "allow" myself time away. There's always something that needs to be done, an email to answer, a photo to edit. More and more I'm learning to say yes. Yes to time away, yes to time with family, yes to things that matter. Because when I do, I come back refreshed, reenergized and ready to tackle my tasks. So here's to more YES, trips with family, time together and adventures ahead!

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The Mentor Sessions

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Meet Julie

Earlier in January I announced the start of The Mentoring Sessions and my heart behind serving, encourgaging and empowering photographers and small business owners to take big risks and make things happen. It's been a step of faith, but the response has been amazing!

This past week Julie and I kicked things off with the first session of the spring! We met over coffee and talked all things branding, shooting, marketing and more. It was amazing to see how far Julie has has come in her business already. Even more exciting to watch as she pieced together ideas and developed steps she'd like accomplish this year. While I had no voice by the time we were done, I left energized. Julie knows exactly where she wants her business to go and has a passion and a fire to get things done. It's incredibly exciting to be around that kind of energy. Julie's passsion and determiniation are the stuff dreams are made of (and that get things done)!

As part of our time together we stepped outside for a mini portrait session. It was FRIGIDLY cold, but Julie was the best and rocked out her modeling skills! Check out her awesome green checkered coat! Julie I had a BLAST, you have so much to be proud of and lots to look forward to in this year ahead!

*If you're intersted in The Mentor Sessions, click here for more information and view the remaining dates available for this spring. If you'd like to schedule a Mentor Session for date not listed, please email me at deborah@deborahzoephoto.com to get set up!*

The Mentor Sessions with Deborah Zoe Photography.

Making The Leap To Full Time Part I

Stepping Out In The Direction Of Your Dreams

When I first decided to make the leap to become full time wedding photographer I was scared.

No, petrified. I was leaving all that I knew and all that I had worked SO hard for. I went to college and studied to become a news photographer. After school, I spent five years working nights and weekends, covering everything from floods to funerals, courtrooms to football. I won awards and accolades and over time the newsroom became my home. When I found myself giving my two weeks notice to leave my job and chase after my dream, I couldn’t believe it. What was I doing?!

My heart was screaming “Follow Your Dreams” but my rational side was pulling me back. How could I make a living as a wedding photographer? It’s too risky. Your news job is safe. This is where you belong. Stay.

But I knew better. The call to follow my dream was stronger than any rational fear I could conjured up. Sometimes we can get stuck in the back and forth of “should I or shouldn’t I.” We end up never making a decision for fear of what might be. We sit in our discomfort and restlessness and yet never do anything about it.

Do one thing today that leads you in the direction of your goal. I can be a small, simple step. Break free of the “should I or shouldn’t I” and take an actionable step today that will have a tangible impact on your future.
Find help to stay accountable to your goals. Be vulnerable with someone you trust. Confide in someone who will push you to take action steps, who will be candid with you in the journey and who will hold you accountable to the things you are chasing after.

Maybe you need to flesh out your dream, or figure out the costs of pursuing something so risky. Maybe you just need encouragement that, IT IS OK to start something small, different or unsure. Start today. Share you dream with someone you trust. Take an actionable step outside of the “should I or shouldn’t I” mind trap. You may just look back five years later and marvel at how far a simple step towards your goal could take you!

In my next Tips with DZP, I'll be sharing a few tips on how I made the leap from part time to full time wedding photographer and business owner (jumping out of the "should I or shouldn't I" and head first into my dream!) If you have any questions or would like to see a thought addressed in that post, please leave a comment below! I'd love to tailor the content to your questions and thoughts!

Now get out there and DO something!

Choosing a First Look or Traditional Reveal

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Choosing a First Look or Traditional Reveal

Welcome to Wedding Love, my blog series dedicated to all things Wedding Planning! I started this series almost five years ago (!!!) with the hope of inspiring the Bride to Be as she plans her wedding. Over the years I have shared my experiences as a Bride and Photographer in hopes of equipping Brides with insightful content and fun stories!

When it comes to Wedding Planning, there are three areas that I am frequently asked about by my Brides : The Engagement Session, The First Look and the Family Formals, all of which I will talk more in depth about in the coming months. For today I wanted to tackled the topic of the First Look. If you’ve been around the blog for any amount of time you know how strongly I feel about the First Look (you can read more here & here). I’m unashamedly for the Bride and Groom carving out time for each other on the wedding day. Today we're going to talk about the differences of the First Look and Traditional reveal and hopefully give you insight into what might be the best option for you. Before we dive right in, let's chat about what the First Look is exactly...

The First Look is when a couple chooses to see each other before the ceremony. It is a private moment alone together before the rush of the day begins. Shocking? Yes and no. As more and more couples become aware of the First Look they are choosing to take advantage of this option for their wedding day. Around 90% of my couples choose to see each other before the ceremony. When my husband I were married in 2006 we didn’t even know that this was an option! Almost 10 years later and this “trend” has only gained in popularity, with more and more couples deciding how THEY want their day to flow.

Looking back, I wish we had a First Look. I was only familiar with the traditional way of doing things and so that's exactly what we did. The morning of the wedding, I was SO nervous. (It was the first and only time I’ve ever had to breath into a paper bag!) All I could think was that I just wanted to see Dave, he is the person who gives me peace, assurance and security. But we waited unitl the ceremony. What I thought was going to be some magical moment at the church aisle turned out to be nothing like I had imagined. I was a hot, sweaty mess. My dress caught in the doorway and my Dad and I could barely fit down the tiny aisle together. I couldn’t see because I was crying to badly. Dave was so nervous to be the center of attention he forgot to smile! AND to top it all off, everyone had stood up and blocked my view of my hubby to be! We didn’t have a moment alone together until later that night when we had left the reception. Looking back, oh how I wished we had a First Look.

As a photographer I can only share my experiences. Each and every couple is different, some want the traditional aisle reveal while others want to spend their time together before the ceremony. My job as your photographer is simply to educate you as to what might be the best decision for you. While I am a huge advocate for the First Look, I know that option might not be right for everyone. So with that in mind I have compiled two lists to help make that decision process easier. Choosing a First Look or Choosing a Traditional Reveal! Let’s dive in!

Choosing a First Look:

It’s a time JUST FOR YOU. I can’t stress enough how quickly a wedding day passes and how limited your time together is. A First Look pauses the day and gives you an opportunity to be alone during an otherwise very packed and busy day.
If you find yourself nervous, jittery or anxious, a First Look allows you time to release that energy before the ceremony starts. As I’ve shared above, I was that Bride! Knowing that I could have seen Dave before the ceremony would have alleviated much of that anxiety.
A First Look realigns the timeline allowing you to take many of the portraits such as Bridal Party & Family before hand, freeing up your time to enjoy parts of the day with your guests, like the cocktail hour.
Emotions. When it’s just the two of you, you’ll be more likely to express how you are truly feeling. It is much harder to display your emotions and the impact of seeing each other when you’re in front of all of your guests.
Many of my clients worry about privacy during the First Look. Because I truly believe that this should be a time for just the couple, I work very hard to ensure that this moment is private and documented in a respectful way. If you’re going to have a First Look, we want to ensure this moment is meaningful and special.
If you are getting married later in the year (late fall & winter), a First Look might be your only option to ensure portraits in daylight.
MORE PORTRAITS! A First Look allows us more space in the timeline for portraits. And because we are not fighting against a reception start, it is a much more relaxed and calming atmosphere. Portraits are my favorite part of the day and as a photographer it’s where I feel like I truly shine. I also believe that given the time and space along with a calming and enjoyable atmosphere, a couple is more likely to let down their guard in front of the camera. Which in turns produces beautifully honest images of two people in love.

Choosing a Traditional Reveal :

A Traditional Reveal at the Ceremony is how many Brides to Be envision their wedding day. Plus this is what most guests are accustomed to, so there will be no explanation needed for guests or Family.
Along with that, your family and guests will be a part of your reveal, a moment that many Families want to witness and be a part of.
Your dress will not have been exposed to the elements before the ceremony.
If you are feeling pressure to have a First Look, but you know that it’s just not for you : DO NOT DO IT. (skip down to #5 in A Few Things to Consider!)
If anything runs late the morning of the wedding such as hair & makeup or a wardrobe issue, it will not interfere with a First Look.

A Few Things to Consider :

If you are getting married in the late fall and winter months you will have a very limited window of natural daylight. As a natural light photographer, I would strongly encourage you to have a First Look.
Parents and family can absolutely be a part of the First Look if that is something you are interested in. In fact it can be an incredibly emotional time sharing that moment with the people you love!
If you choose not to partake in a First Look, the Bridal Party (Bride with Bridesmaids & Groom with Groomsmen) will be taken before the ceremony.
If you choose not to partake in a First Look, the Bridal Party, Family and Bride & Groom portraits will be taken afterwards meaning you will miss much, if not all, of your cocktail hour. Your reception details will be photographed after the guests have arrived and may be disturbed before being photographed.
As your photographer I will need 30 minutes with the Bridal Party, 30 minutes with the Family and 30-45 minutes with the Bride and Groom on the wedding day. If you only have 10 minutes for your Couple Portraits you will have a very limited amount of images and limited variety in your wedding portfolio.
Don’t be afraid to wear your heart on your sleeve! Whether you choose to see each other for the first time during your First Look or during a Traditional Reveal, share your emotions! Don’t hold back! This is your opportunity to let your spouse to be know how you feel regardless of who is watching or where you are. This is a day to celebrate! Your wedding day will be happy and memorable occasion for you as a couple, share that joy with those around you!

From The Pros :

“ I loooooved our first look. We both cried like babies. It was so special and honestly my absolute FAVORITE part of our wedding day. It was like time slowed down and that's the part I can remember the best!” - Stephanie

“Our first look was one of my favorite moments of our wedding day! So glad we decided to do that, Jason's reaction was priceless! It was such an intimate time that we have captured forever!!” - Amanda

“The decision to do a First Look at our wedding was a little controversial, but ultimately it's a decision we're both very glad that we made. Our families were a bit confused about the whole idea because it goes against tradition, but I got everyone on board! The First Look was time just for the two of us. I've really come to cherish the moments from our First Look because they would not appear again until the reception was over and everyone went home. Seeing each other before the ceremony lifted all the stress and butterflies away. It calmed our emotions and anxiety, allowing us to really enjoy the ceremony and the special moments of our wedding. It was a special part of our day that still stands out as a favorite!” - Marlo

“My favorite part of our wedding was our ceremony. We were able to take the best parts of a traditional wedding ceremony and make them our own. In particular, I loved that we brought together all of our closest family and friends to stand beside us as we recited our vows. In a sentence, it was the moment where I felt the deepest amount of love between us and surrounding us.” - Lisa

“Our first look was the best part of the day. While primping and prepping I had worked myself up and grown more and more anxious. When I walked outside to the park, I tapped Rob on the shoulder and immediately felt at ease. We were able to be ourselves and cuddle while Deb captured some intimate photos. That time alone to reflect on how lucky we were was just what we needed. From there on out, I just knew what an amazing day it would be and all the nerves went away!” - Rachel

"My favorite part was the the anticipation leading up to seeing my groom for the first time. Focusing on him as I walked down the aisle was the most magical and romantic moment of my life! I still remember the look on his face!" - Lindsey

“The morning of the wedding was a stressful time for me. Having a First Look shortened the waiting period to see my Bride to Be, which was wonderful and exactly what I needed. I could see Hannah and this time allow us to soak the day in a bit. I think that's one of the biggest perks about the First Look. There was time before the ceremony for us to see each other, there was a flow, a reasonable and enjoyable pace to the day, that let us enjoy each other and the party. Furthermore, given that we got married in a field and the 'aisle' was really long, being able to actually see Hannah in her dress from a reasonable distance was preferable to me over seeing her walk across a large open field from far away. The fact that I had seen her previously didn't detract from seeing her walk down the aisle, but let me take more of it in!” - Barrett

As you've read, choosing whether to choose a First Look or Traditional Reveal is a very personal decision. I would challenge you to think carefully as you approach your wedding day as to what decision is right for you. As your photographer, regardless of whether you see each other beforehand or at the ceremony, I will work hard to capture that special moment in a way that is meaningful to you. Either choice is extraordinarily personal, one is not right and one is not wrong. Simply put, one is the perfect fit for you and your day. I hope that this post has given you more insight into the First Look and pointed you in the direction that is right for you!

Group participation time! Did you have a First Look or Traditional Reveal? What did you enjoy about your time together? I'd love to hear about your experience in the comments below!

Rediscovering My Voice

I’ve always been shy if I’m out of my element. Put me in a room full of my friends, I’ll talk your ear off and crack jokes at a mile a minute. Put in me a room full of strangers and I’m more likely to be cowering in the corner hoping that no one talks to me. It’s a wonder that I have friends at all;). I’ve worked hard over the years to stiffen my fear of rejection and new situations, but make no mistake, it’s been hard work.

When I got my first real job working as a news photographer I could hardly believe it. This was my DREAM job and here I was living it out! I was still in college at the time and felt incredibly inadequate working at a Pulitzer Prize winning paper! My co-workers were talented, experienced and good at what they did. How could I possibly do well, let alone compete, in such a competitive and talented field?

My first assignment at the paper was to photograph the damage of a massive river flood. I brought my images back to my mentor/employer and I thought I might die. I did NOT want her to look at those images. Surely she would fire me on the spot I thought. But instead, she told me what worked, what didn’t and then told me to go out again. Shoot more. In other words, go find my voice.

Despite my insecurity, my editor saw something in me. A shy, inexperienced photographer who lacked confidence in herself but who had a passion and desire to grow. Slowly but surely, I worked hard. I challenged myself and I began to find my voice. I began to find confidence. Four years after my editor first hired me, she pulled me aside.

“I remember when you first came to us. You were this shy quiet girl. And now here you are, winning awards, going after stories, confident.”

I’ll never forget that conversation. Because she was right. Being a news photographer gave me a confidence in myself that I had never experienced before. I had to talk to be people, I had to be forward. I had to encounter awkward and difficult situations. And the more I had to do that, the more sure I became of myself and of my work.

When I decided that I wanted to be a wedding photographer, that all changed. Once again I felt like a fish out of water. Here I was drowning in a sea of photographers. Photographers who were all talented, experienced, and good at what they did. How could I possibly do well, let alone compete in such a competitive and talented field?

And if I’m being totally honest, there are times that I can still feel this way. Five years later, what I’ve realized is that finding your voice doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a gut wrenching, raw and honest process. There is beauty in the journey and lessons to be learned along the way. While I am more sure of who I am and what my purpose as a photographer is, I am still learning and growing. There is still much to be discovered.

If you find yourself struggling to find your voice, don't give up. Take the risks, stretch yourself, learn something new. You may just look back five years from now and be amazed at how far you've come;)!

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Image by Shyla.

Inspire Photo Retreats

Three Days of Learning, Growing & Connecting

During the months of January - March I am often asked what I spend my time doing?! While I may not be shooting as much as I might say during April - October, I am still VERY busy. Emails, website revamps, file organization, office work, mentoring, it fills my days and keeps me on the go. But since the pace of business life is very diferent this time of year I'm also afforded opportunities that I simply would not be able to under take during the busy months of wedding season, like continuing education.

It has been a while since I've gone to a workshop or conference so when the opportunity to attend Inspire Photo Retreats came up I just knew I had to take part! And I'm SO glad I did. Inspire is a completely differenct and unique type of conference. One where you are all equal, peers teaching peers, in an approachable, comfortable and friendly environment. Having attended Inspire before I knew that this was the heart behind the conference but I was pleaseantly surprised to see that this kind of atmosphere has only grown and matured in the years since. It was so encouraging and uplifting to be surrounded by peers and friends, each of whom were helping to lift up those around them and empowering others to take big steps. Who wouldn't love being around such awesome-ness?

As creatives who run businesses it can be very easy to fall into a rut of just trying to run a business. The creativity can often be muddled by the day in day out tasks that need to be accomplished. Taking a few days away from the business to refuel my creative side was SO needed. I left feeling refreshed, rejuvinated and inspired. In short, I cannot wait to head back next year!

So what type of things did I learn at Inspire?

Standing Out In A Saturated Market, learning how I can tape into my unique perspectives and how that translates into the client experience.
Fine Art Wedding Photography, learning how to incorporate film into my digital workflow (SO EXCITED ABOUT THIS!!)
Why You Need To Be Published, learning the ins and outs of blogging and publishing content.
The Wedding From Hell, leanring how to handle the many situations that arise on a wedding day and how to create beautiful and artisitc images despite less than ideal conditions.
The Business Plan, learning how to formulate a proper business plan and who that will dramatically effect your efficiecnty and effectiveness in your business
Mentoring, I had the opportunity to help mentor three women in various stages of their business. I learned so much just by listening to their unique stories and their visions for their business. If you're reading this, thank you for sharing your hearts!
Connecting with Elizabeth from Showit, the company that hosts my website! It was awesome to put a face to product that I love so much and to chat together about how Showit can become even more involved in the New England community. That is what makes Inspire so great!
Meeting new friends and see familiar faces with amazing! I even connected with a dear friend who I didn't even know was going to be there, it was an amazing experience from start to finish!

And to top it all off friends, Melissa and Tom from Long Haul Films documented the week's activities and compiled them into an amazing video! I might be biased (they did my promo video!) but I think these two are AMAZING and I was so excited to see them working HARD to get this video made. Check it out, it's pretty great!!

Inspire 2015 - The moments in between from Long Haul Films on Vimeo.

Far right image courtesy of Grazier Photography.

A recap of Inspire Photo Retreats by Deborah Zoe Photography.

Image from Inspire Photo Retreats by Wayne Chinnock.

A recap of Inspire Photo Retreats by Deborah Zoe Photography.

If you've been considering coming to Inspire definitely make it a point to attend in 2016! It truly is a special three days, a place where you can grow as an artist, grow as a business owner and grow relationships with the peers around you! I can't wait to see you there in 2016!

Karla & Cassidy Expecting

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A Liberty Hotel Maternity Session

The day started with Cassidy chatting with Squirmy. At first I thought this might be a cute nickname for his wife Karla, but I quickly came to learn that Squirmy is the nickname they have affectionatly given to their baby who loves to do summersaults in Mommy's belly. As Karla nears the end of her first pregnancy, Squirmy's movements have become incredibly pronounced, giving Squirmy full rights to their nickname!

As they await the arrival of their baby, I was struck by how calm and relaxed they both were. Cassidy is an incredibly comforting presence, always caring and looking out for Karla. Karla is the epitomy of relaxed and has taken her pregnancy in graceful strides. Karla and Cassidy will be celebrating nine years of marriage this May and I believe that their strong relationship has laid a firm foundation on which to build their family. Man, I'm just so excited for these three!!

Karla and Cassidy were troopers and woke up at the break of dawn for their session in downtown Boston. Since it was frigid we decided to stay inside their hotel, the Liberty, and use the beautiful archicture in the lobby to set the backdrop for the session. Karla's dress was also the perfect fit for the once former jail;)! I hope you enjoy this beautiful couple and feel the anticipation and love that radiate from these two!!

Downtown Boston Maternity Session by Deborah Zoe Photography.

The Mommy Interviews with Run Far Girl

The Art of Balance series was created as a way to encourage and inspire those who find themselves balancing the demands (and JOYS) of parenthood and entrepreneurship. For me that takes the shape of Mom and Wife as well as owner/photographer of a successful New England wedding photography studio. I’ve shared extensively here on the blog on what it looks like to be a Mom while growing a business. It has been a joy to walk through this journey with you from pregnancy to baby to toddler and this series has become one of my favorites to write and share.

One of the many wonderful things about being a Mom is that there are many other women out there who are leading the way, setting a beautiful example and parenting in their own unique style. I’ve loved following along the journey of other Moms who are balancing their own business and families and realized that these women have so much to share! And that is how the Mommy Interviews were born.

Over the course of 2015 I will be introducing you to some amazingly talented, dedicated, beautiful women who are walking their own path of Mommyhood and entrepreneurship. I hope that their wisdom, knowledge and perspective will be an encouragement to anyone learning the Art of Balance. I couldn’t be more excited to kick off this mini series than with my friend, accomplished athlete and the face behind Run Far Girl, Sarah.

Sarah, I'm so excited to have you sharing on the blog today! Let's start things off by asking, how long have you been a Mum?

I can’t believe I’m about to write this...but FIVE years! Yikes. Our daughter, Sophia turned five in December which also means I’ve been doing this whole mom thing for a half a decade. Honestly I don’t feel old enough to be a mom to a five year old, but it’s true.

You seem to love being a Mom and fit naturally into the role. Have you always dreamed of being a Mom?

Honestly, when I dreamed of my future life when I was in my late teens and 20’s motherhood didn’t really fit into the picture. I really wanted a successful career first and thought marriage and family would come later in life. But I ended up married at the young age of 21 and Sophia came along (as a bit of a surprise) five years later and our son Jack, three years after her and we are expecting number three in May. Three kids! I always assumed that I’d have to abandon my personal interests to become a “good mom,” but I’ve learned that pursuing my interests is not only essential to my well being and to who I am, but is also a great example for my kids as well. One of the primary things Sophia plays is “business,” she’s mimicking what I do and I think that’s great! Obviously there’s a bit of juggling and sacrifice that goes into balancing both motherhood and my interests. There seems to be an ebb and flow to where I am able to focus my efforts and energy, but it all works out in the end.

How has parenthood changed you? Was it what you were expecting?

Parenting has totally changed me. I like to be in control, have all my ducks in a row, have a predictable and reliable schedule...in other words I’m a bit OCD. Motherhood has forced me to shift my priorities, knowing that it’s more important that my kids feel loved and valued than have a reliable schedule or an uber clean home. I’m much more relaxed (and learning to relax more all the time). I tend to be more flexible and I am still working on patience and graciousness when life doesn’t line up with my expectations. I think the biggest thing about parenthood is that it never really matches your expectations, it’s so unpredictable and even when you think you’ve equipped yourself for certain situations you can never really be fully prepared. Little people are so unpredictable! Ha!

You started Run Far Girl after the birth of your first baby, Sophia. Would you mind sharing a bit on why you started the blog and how it has transformed into the very popular Run Far Girl?

I started writing my blog because I found myself needing an outlet. I had left my job as a high school English teacher and as a stay at home mom with a napping newborn I wanted something to do during those down hours. I also had all these new thoughts on motherhood and I needed a place to express them, even if no one read it. It kind of served as a personal journal for a while and then as time progressed it turned into a bit more. I chronicled running through my pregnancy with Jack and that proved to be a huge resource for other mother runners. And after getting my running coach certifications (USATF and RRCA) I’ve been able to continue to be a running resource. I also talk a lot about eating disorders and eating disorder recovery; I struggled with bulimia for nine years and have been “sober” for almost six years. Candidly sharing that journey and how I found freedom seems to really be a breath of fresh air for some readers.

How do you find time to blog, run your online store and workout while balancing the responsibilities of being a Mom?

I get up really early (and go to bed really early). And I have a very supportive husband. I try to spend an hour to an hour and a half doing work in the morning, then workout or run. I try to be ready for the day by 7am. And on Saturday mornings my husband takes the kids for a few hours while I play catch up or try to get ahead on the coming week. I use those weekend hours to manage the store and schedule posts for the coming week. I also use naptime to manage and post to my social media platforms. I pay Sophia a few dollars each week to help me pack orders (she’s a pro!) and we make scheduled trips to the post office each week to ship orders (which the kids love because they get lollipops). Some days it runs smoothly and others not so much. And like I mentioned before there’s an ebb and flow to where I invest my time and energy. Sometimes I’m really focused on my blog and shop and then other times they are the last thing on my list.

What would be your advice to Moms out there who are balancing a business and family?

Be OK with the ebb and flow. You can’t give 100% of your energy to 100% of the things you’re involved in 100% of the time. And the thing is you could always be doing MORE. I just finished reading a great book on maximizing your social media platforms called “The Art of Social Media.” I walked away with some great ideas and strategies, but I also walked away thinking ‘I can’t do ALL the things they recommended (like post to Twitter 25 times a day AND post 12 pins AND post to Google+ 10 times AND post to Facebook 4 times AND post to Linkedin).’ I am not a social media manager at a major firm. I’m a one man show. I am chief diaper changer, chef, house cleaner, shipper, writer, shop manager, nose-wiper and hug-giver. So you have to quiet that voice that tells you you’re not doing ENOUGH and be content with what you can give in the season that you’re in. Also, don’t be afraid to say NO. Not every opportunity, as good as it may seem, is going to fit into your life and if you do try to fit in more you’ll wind up stressed and burned out. Which is no good. Be gracious with yourself and make sure that you’re choosing the right thing at the right time; really only you know what that is.

Would you agree that raising a family “takes a village”? Have there been people or resources in your life that have helped you be a great Mom?

I think that raising kids does take help. My husband and I are a team, but honestly he pulls more weight than I do. He’s such a great guy. He is pursuing a masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, primarily because he wants to be a better Dad. He’s constantly reading about childhood psychology and development and parenthood and sharing his thoughts with me. I learn so much from him. My mom was a great resource to me in the early years of motherhood, I’m not sure what I would have done without her help. And my mother-in-law is over every Thursday so my hubby and I can go out on a date. That time together is essential for me, for us, to be great parents; it’s like a strategy session and a chance to connect. I’ve also had friends step in and watch my kids so I could go for a run: my primary way to de-stress and get my head on straight. So yes, parenthood is an “all hands on deck” kind of scenario!

As an athlete, you have to find time to train and run for events throughout the year. Do you have any advice for us non athlete types on how to squeeze in regular exercise during a busy workday/week?

For me running is more than just exercise, its the quiet calm before my day starts where I think and de-stress. I like to call it moving meditation. Last winter and spring I trained for my eighth marathon and it took a huge chunk of time, but setting that big goal had me out there when it was cold or I was too tired. Goals can be a huge motivator, but it doesn’t have to be a marathon. If running is your thing sign up for a local race, if it’s not, buy a punch pass to a local studio and agree to meet a girlfriend each week. I’m a fan of morning workouts because I get up, get it done and get on with my day. Morning workouts mean an early bedtime, so plan accordingly. But naptime can also work as a workout time. I’m a huge fan of Jillian Michaels DVD’s as most kids nap for at least 20 minutes and if you change into your workout clothes (or if you’re like me you’re already in your yoga pants) before you put them down and start the DVD right after they’re asleep you can bang out a 20 minute workout before they wake up. Make the commitment, find someone to help keep you accountable and look at it as a lifestyle change, not something you want to do for the next month or two to get ready for swimsuit season.

You recently announced your pregnancy. How do you envision adding a third child will affect the way that you blog and run your business? Any tips for Moms with larger families and busy workloads on how to navigate the many responsibilities that brings?

Honestly I have no idea! And I’ve had a few “Meltdown Moments” thinking about it. How will I manage it all? But the thing I keep coming back to is that life has seasons and I’m not going to be able to do what I’m doing now after the baby arrives, maybe in a few months or a year I’ll be back up to ‘full speed’, but it will look different that what “full speed” looks like now. I also come back to the fact that I felt the same way before having Jack and I’ve managed to navigate two kids and still accomplish many of my personal and business goals.

What has been your greatest joy being a Mom?

Cozy snuggles. Sloppy kisses. Unbridled curiosity. Blossoming creativity. Seeing the world through little eyes. The happy mess of it all.

Anything else to share?

If you have a dream or an idea, go for it. Don’t sit on it thinking I’ll do it when the kids are XX age. Find out what you need to make it happen and take the first step. You’d be surprised what you can do NOW and how educational it can be for you kids to watch your journey!

If you'd like to connect with Sarah you can find her at RunFarGirl where she blogs about every thing from running, Mommyhood to her victory over an eat disorder and more. Following along with her family and running adventures at @runfargirl on Instragram and connect with her via email at runfargirl@gmail.com. She's also on Facebook, Twitter, DailyMile and runs an adorable shop of running gear here.

To make this post even more sweet, Sarah has graciously offered to giveaway one of her lovely shirts from the RunFarGirl shop! I bought one last year to wear while I was training for my 1/2 marathon and I love it! It's one of my favorite shirts to workout in and wear on the weekends, super soft and it comes in a beautiful variety of colors:)!! Don't miss out!! Enter to win by liking this post, leaving a comment below and visiting us on Facebook! The contest begins today ands at 10pm tomorrow. We'll be sharing the winner on Monday! Good luck!

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Inspire Photo Retreats

Getting My Learn On!

This week I am spending some time in Portland, Maine along with several hundred photographers as we come together to learn and be INPSIRED! Inspire Photo Retreats have been around for a several years, in fact I attended in 2011! But to be honest, I just haven't made a commitment to attend these last few years despite the fact that it was hosted right in my home state! This year, I just couldn't say no. Thanks to the nudging of some good friends who just said I had to go, I signed up! I'm more than excited to spend a few days investing in my business, investing in others and making new friends! I've got my notebooks and gel pens stocked and ready to go;)!

Because Inspire is an intensly focused time, I will have limited access to email and internet. I promise to answer all messages in full as soon a I return to the office on Thursday. The blog will still be in full swing however with Sarah from RunFarGirl guest blogging on Wednesday and a darling maternity session on Thursday. Be sure to tune in later this week for those! (There's a fun giveaway happening too!)

Have a beautiful week! If you're in the Northeast, I hope you enjoy your snow day (DAYS :-O). See you later this week!

Can we host in Florida next year?! Just sayin':).

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Image from the 2011 Inspire Retreat courtesy of Grazier Photography.

North Shore At Home Newborn Session

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Remember these two and their amazing NYC maternity session?! Over the weekend I had the immense joy of documenting their newborn session at our home. I've known Courtney for over 16 years (WHAT?!) and was honored when she asked me to photograph her precious family of three. It's always a joy to photograph dear friends, especially on their journey to parenthood!

Watching Courtney and Dave with their new daughter was a delight. They are such incredible parents : patient, gentle, loving. Dave is such a proud Papa and Courtney is such a nurturing presence around Emmeline. It brought me right back to those first few weeks with our son Jonathan and the joy it was to discover who he was. Being a Mom (or Dad) is all sorts of awesome and I'm so excited our dear friends get to experience that journey too!

This is the second portrait session we've hosted at our house and it was so fun playing with the ample natural light we have. It was brutally cold outside, but warm and toasty inside, the perfect setting for a newborn session. Add in the gorgeous florals from Les Fleurs in Andover and I was in photography heaven. Wait till you see what they created for sweet Emmeline! Courtney loves Rifle Paper Co. and these florals were the perfect nod to all things Rifle, pastel and feminine! (Brides to Be take note, if you're looking for an amazing florist, look no further than Les Fleurs, they are incredible!)

Courtney and Dave, what an exciting year you have in store! I truly hope that these images capture the love and joy you have your baby girl, may they always remind you of the immense love & bond you felt the first time you held her in your arms! Welcome to the world Miss Emmeline!

At home newborn session by Deborah Zoe Photography.

The Meaning Behind Deborah Zoe

The Meaning Behind Deborah Zoe

I get asked all the time if Zoe is my last name. My mother would proudly tell you that Zoe is NOT my last name, but my middle. (You know that I’m in trouble if mother utters my first and middle name together “Deborah Zoe!”) Look out! Funny, as that has become my business name!

Zoe was my great grandmother. I never had the chance to meet her but over the years I’ve heard lots of stories about her life from my family. I love that she was the inspiration behind my middle name. It’s something that I’ve cherished for my whole life. I loved getting quizzical looks and curious questions whenever people saw the Z in my name. It was unique, it was different, and liked that.

When it came time to pick a business name I knew that Zoe had to be a part of that. Deborah Zoe. Deborah Zoe Photo. It had a ring to it. And while my official business name is now Deborah Zoe Photography it still has that something that I like. No one else is Deborah Zoe, just me. How cool.

Below is a picture of my great grandmother Zoe. Its one of the only pictures that I have seen of her. It’s in a locket that was given to me by my grandmother. I’ve had it since I was young and would often open and close the locket, looking at the picture inside. Who was this woman that I shared a name with? What was she like? Did she have a streak of rebellion in her like me? Did she like her name? (More importantly, where did she get that hat?;))

Isn’t it amazing how people can live on through you?! Thanks Grammy Zoe for passing along your awesome name to me. I love it!

Before I head out, I feel the need to make a bit of clarification for all of you out there:) My business name is Deborah Zoe. Not Deborah Zoey. Like my husband says, no one calls Joe, Joey. Deborah Zoe. That’s me!

(A repost from my old blog.)

How Adding Florals Can Enhance Your Session

How Adding Florals Can Enhance Your Session

Well I suppose the secret it out, I love florals! In case you missed it, over the weekend I shared several sneak peeks of a beautiful family session. With a little planning beforehad we had the opportunity to incoporate several floral elements into the session. It was the PERFECT accessory and a beautiful compliment for a darling family. In short it was a dream to photograph!

Florals are a wonderful way to add interest and whimsy to your engagement or portrait session and as a photographer I adore when clients take the time to think thoughtfully about how to do so in a meaningful way. Whether it be a floral head wreath, a hand picked bouquet, a floral pin, or a slew of soft petals, blooms are the perfect way to let your session stand out from the rest! And with the many blooms that are available in the various seasons throughout the year, the options are seamingly endless!

In additiona to adding interest and charm, florals can be a great way to give you something to do with your hands which is especially helpful for those who might be nervous in front of the camera! Plus they smell good, who doesn't love that?:)

Dogwood Floral, Les Fleurs and Whim Events are just a few of my favorite floral designers who have created works of floral art for DZP sessions in the past. If you're interested in adding a touch of florals to your upcoming portrait or engagement session (of course I HIGHLY recommend it!), please reach out! I'd love to help you incoporate beautiful blooms into your session for a unique and whimsical touch! Until then, enjoy some inspiration for your viewing pleasure. May it inspire your floral dreams;):)!